La Diablesse Perverse begins with a session between a professional maitress / dominatrix.
My, what a selection of canes …
The film then swtiches to maledom: see La Diablesse Perverse Part 2.
Down On My Knees
Tentative speculations on power exchange and sadomasochism by a pansexual polyfetishist.
La Diablesse Perverse
Entertainments
Furry Animal Femdom
Entertainments
Imagine Bill Ward illustrating kid’s books or the old Dell / Gold Key comic books.
© Lisa Hanawalt
Actually this looks more like an Eric Stanton situation to me.
Legally Binding Mistress / Slave Contract
Questions & Observations by Others
Girl with a whip by Enoch Bolles.
People write me asking for the damnest advice:
How is it feasible to draft a long term, MISTRESS/slave contract of obedience & servitude that is actually legally binding? This is something both parties desire. Thank You !
Another fan of really real slavery.
The short answer: you can’t. Slavery is illegal in the United States. Period. The law will not recognize your slavery; you cannot assume the status of chattel except in your own mind.
I’ve seen slave contracts that acknowledge their lack of legal status. It reads as a sort of whistling in the graveyard as though rejecting the law will somehow stop the criminal justice system. No judge is going to accept your disagreement with a law as an excuse for not obeying it.
A common internet game is for people with the craving - stated desire anyway - to achieve legally binding servitude is to speculate on ways a man can make himself financially dependent on his Mistress.
Going into debt isn’t going to make you a slave. If you willfully ruin yourself financially you might be declared incompetent. But you are more likely to become the ward of a family member or psychiatric institution than anyone else.
Even if you were to become her ward you could go to the court and at anytime and point out you are being treated as a slave.
In BDSM:
Pain is pursued for the stringent and sensual beauty that plays across the masochist’s nerve endings. Humiliation to be left supine, damp and sated. Slavery - submission - because it makes you happy.
Offering yourself should be enough. Consenting to become her slave fulfilling in itself. That is ‘real’ slavery: desire and need.
Inadvertant Orgasm Denial
About
No Wanking III
© Robert Crumb
This was meant to be a fairly longish post. To complete and justify the two prior posts.
But I got hit by a very long period of exhaustion. Some days I was up and around for maybe eight hours. And too tired to do more than watch DVDs.
I’m feeling much more alive now.
I no longer remember all that I wished to say. I certainly don’t want penis humor at the top of the page anymore.
A Man and His Penis
My Inner Life
No Wanking II
Over the years I’ve felt that Penis and I have a satisfactory relationship that combines mutual interest with friendly self-respect. But lately …
Me: Hi Penis!
Penis: Not tonight.
Me: But …
Penis: I have a headache.
Me: But if you really care for me …
Penis: (Frigid silence)
Me: (Grabs Penis)
Penis: Rape! Rape!
Or
Penis: Hey, big boy!
Me: You aren’t fooling me.
Penis: C’mon, have some fun.
Me: (Relaxes, reaches down)
Penis: April Fool!
Or Penis just lies there as if nothing is happening. You know the type.
One more to come …
PS: BDSM Romance was once intended to sort of partly replace this site. That never happened but I do post a few things there along and along.
PPS: Likewise I do update Femdom Romance and Femdom Dating and am willing to own up to Femdom Artists.
Male Masturbation
My Inner Life
No Wanking I
I was in fifth grade when my best friend told me about masturbation. I tried it later than day in the tub. I wasn’t impressed.
Within a very few years my attitude changed. Like every other adolescent boy I had a body that evolutionary history had programmed to orgasm frequently. I was an assiduous wanker.
And continued to be so during the years when without someone to have sex with. I wanked at bedtime and on awakening. And odd points in between. Sometimes I’d masturbate in an effort to insure I felt no unwanted desire at an inconvenient time.
Chastity lore aside frequent orgasms didn’t render me selfish and uncaring. It did leave me with a vast and sometimes violent fantasy life. Those silly masochists!
Things have been different these past several months.
More to come …
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(I can’t remember if I’ve linked to Queer Pop Culture from here before. There are sections with BDSM illustration and photography.)
Penile Self-Amputation
Emotional Health
Butch, sociable, happy with his gender still felt a compulsion to take a pair of scissors to his penis.
… Although exclusively heterosexual in his practices, the patient confided sexual fantasies that included homosexual and sado-masochistic acts.
There was an increase in mutilating behaviors in the decade after his divorce. Genital self-mutilation relieved feelings of “loneliness” and “emptiness,” elevating his mood for “several hours,” and occasionally resulting in sexual arousal culminating in orgasm.
Psychosomatics - Self-Amputation of the Nipples and Penis in a Nonpsychotic, Non–Gender-Dysphoric Man
While it is completely outside my own capacity for empathy I know that there are men who are happiest with some portion of their genitals removed. It varies from man to man.
Naturally I can’t help but wonder if he had tried to live out some of his sadomasochistic fantasies not involving self inflicted penectomy if he woujld’ve felt like leaving his penis as it arrived from the manufacturer.
From earlier years:
Contracts Aren't Forever
Rules & Rituals
BDSM slave contracts are sexy things that make any fantasy hotter. Not that codified regulations and protocols aren’t real enhancements and sources of stability for some power exchange arrangements.
But some kinky folk take the term Total Power Exchange literally. Some tops believe they are actually owners of their slave. That there is some binding power that exists without the bottoms voluntary, competent consent.
Practical concerns and human fluidity have heartlessly created a world in which rarely last forever, or fifty years - whichever comes first. Just because someone has pledged a lifetime of obedience doesn’t mean the time won’t come when they leave you.
Laura Antoniou
I Try a Vibrator
Miscellany
Did I ever try to stick a cucumber up my ass?
That may strike you as something you wouldn’t forget but this wouild’ve been a so very long time ago. I’d just begun to be queer-identified and I guess felt that mean I wanted something up my butt. (How did I know about anal sex? That sort of knowledge was much less easily come by during my boyhood than nowadays.)
I think I actually did make a half-hearted, instantly aborted experiment with a cucumber.
Some months later I somehow came into possession of a dildo. I was still a virgin and had experience only of my own penis. And I’d never taken real notice of the dimensions of it. So at the time I didn’t know the dildo was much longer and very much thicker than anything I was ever apt to see attached to a human body.
I think I got the barest tip inserted. The process of trying to fuck myself with it was too cumbersome and I wasn’t really excited so I abandoned my effort.
Eventually I’d go to bed with a guy who wasn’t a bottom and find out what it was like to be fucked.
Recently I ran across a vibrator of Alexandra’s. Flipping the switch it went bzzzz and I thought, why not.
A little AstroGlide and it slid in easily. I moved it in and out to negligible sensation. I adjusted the vibrator to press on my prostate gland. That felt mildly pleasant. But I felt Id rather have a cup of coffee than continue stroking.
This is why list anal insertables as a ‘soft limit’ on my profiles. If you really want to stick something in my I’ll go along with it. But you have to accept that it’ll just bore me.
I’d still like to see what it is like to be penetrated by a strap-on dildo. With the right psychodrama it might be fun.
Kinky Superman
Entertainments
The first time I saw an illustration by Eric Stanton I was disgusted and baffled.
Disgusted because the theme was women beating up other women for the entertainment of men. Catfights are so far from being my kink that they even evoke a slight spasm of puritan distaste.
Shocked because it appeared to be the work of Steve Ditko. Ditko was the original artist of Spiderman and Doctor Strange. To someone of my age and tastes Steve Ditko is a legend. The kinky comic book was so unexpected. The more so since Ditko in later years would produce a series of bizarrely hyper-moralistic small press comics.
Eventually I learned that Stanton and Ditko shared a studio for a time. I’ve never seen an elucidation of their working relationship.
This morning I was stunned to discover this book:
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